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BDSM 101

#01 Understanding BDSM: It's All About Trust and Connection

Let's talk about BDSM, which stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. yeah, it’s a mouthful, but don’t stress. It’s basically a way for people to explore different power dynamics and sensations, all while having a good time.

Here’s the thing: BDSM isn't just about ropes, paddles, costumes, or roleplay. At its core, it’s about trust, communication, and connection. When you engage in BDSM activities, you’re literally handing over control to someone (or taking it!), so you need to trust each other completely. That's why people emphasise setting clear limits, having open conversations, and using safe words. These practices ensure that everyone involved feels safe, respected, and is enjoying themselves.

Think of it like a dance where both partners are in sync – working together, listening to each other, and respecting each other's moves. In the end, it’s about creating a space where both people can explore their fantasies safely and consensually.

So yeah, BDSM is way more about trust and connection than just the toys – though, the toys are pretty fun too!

We’ve selected some of the most exciting adult industry events happening both locally and internationally. Mark your calendars, and don’t miss out on these incredible opportunities to learn, explore, and have fun!

Local Events

Studio Of Secrets – Melbourne, Australia

Check out regular events at the Studio of Secrets!
Explore Melbourne’s hottest workshops and events.
View the full schedule here

GEAR’d Adelaide

Date: Saturday, 9 November 2024
Time: 12:00 PM – 5:00 PM
Location: Westies Bar & Bistro, Richmond, SA
Fetish Market Hall featuring leading fetish and kink retailers!
Learn more

Global Events

Porn Film Festival Berlin 2024
Dates: 22 – 27 October 2024
Location: Berlin, Germany
A celebration of diverse porn productions worldwide.
More information

Venus Berlin 2024 (B2B/B2C)
Dates: 24 – 27 October 2024
Location: Berlin, Germany
Explore one of the largest adult entertainment fairs in the world!
Learn more

Asia Entertainment Expo Nonthaburi, Bangkok 2024
Dates: 22 – 24 November 2024
Location: Nonthaburi, Bangkok
A vibrant expo with AV stars, live shows, and cultural festivals.
Event details

Adult Entertainment Expo Las Vegas 2025 (B2B/B2C)
Dates: 22 – 25 January 2025
Location: Las Vegas, NV, United States
The legendary show with adult stars, live performances, and the famous AVN Awards.
Learn more

Asia Adult Expo Guangzhou (B2B)
Dates: 10 – 12 March 2025
Location: Guangzhou, China
The first mainstream trade platform for adult products in China.
Find out more

Shanghai API Adult Expo 2025 (B2B)
Dates: 18 – 20 April 2025
Location: Shanghai, China
A professional platform for pleasure products with nearly 400 brands.
Event details

We hope you enjoy these events and discover something new and exciting!